Pooja Bedi Talks About Raising an Independent Alaya F: No Nepotism, Just Empowerment
Pooja Bedi’s relationship with her daughter Alaya F is a far cry from the stereotypical celebrity-parent dynamics. While many star mothers seek fame and influence through their children’s careers, Pooja has always championed independence and personal growth for Alaya.
In a candid interview with Dinesh Raheja of Rediff, Pooja opens up about how she has managed to strike a perfect balance between being a loving mother and allowing Alaya the freedom to carve her own path. Pooja states, “Parenting isn’t about control. It’s about empowering your child to live their fullest life, and if staying separately is what she seeks for personal growth, I fully support it.”
Alaya’s Independence: A Self-Made Star
Alaya F, who is now a rising star in the film industry, moved out of her family home at 24, seeking space for her personal growth. According to Pooja, Alaya has always been fiercely independent, driven, and focused on achieving success on her own terms. Pooja proudly shares that Alaya “wants none of the nepotism angle” and has kept her professional life separate from her mother’s, working hard to establish herself as a self-made actress.
“I’ve never been invited to her sets or shoots. She wants to achieve success without interference, and I completely respect that,” says Pooja, highlighting her daughter’s strong desire to succeed without leveraging her star mother’s status.
A Loving and Supportive Relationship
Despite their physical distance, the bond between Pooja and Alaya remains strong. The two share precious moments together, from workout sessions to dinner dates, and even spontaneous trips. Pooja fondly recalls how Alaya once told her, “You’re so much fun to be with,” a moment that she says makes her heart “sing.”
Their relationship is built on love, mutual respect, and understanding. “Home is where the heart is,” says Pooja, emphasizing the open and welcoming nature of their relationship.
A Unique Mother-Daughter Dynamic
Pooja reflects on how she and her daughter share a similar, yet distinct, relationship to the one she had with her own mother, Protima Bedi, a renowned danseuse. “It’s very loving and supportive, yet our professional journeys are our own,” Pooja notes, comparing her connection with Alaya to her own bond with her late mother.
As for her fiancé Maneck Contractor, Pooja reveals that her children adore him, though they joke that he must find her high energy “overwhelming.” She adds that her relationship with her ex-husband Farhan and his family is also incredibly positive, and they maintain a close-knit family dynamic for the sake of their children.
Motherhood Lessons: Leading by Example
Pooja offers some valuable advice to her children on relationships, explaining that it’s the journey that matters, not the destination. She encourages Alaya to stay grounded and respectful, emphasizing the importance of gracefully letting go of things that no longer work.
As Alaya continues to thrive in her career, Pooja remains a pillar of support, ever proud of her daughter’s accomplishments. “I can’t wait to meet the lucky man who will one day enter her life and sweep her off her grounded feet,” Pooja concludes, highlighting the unconditional love she has for her daughter.
