US Woman Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Secretly Buys House with His Mother

A 28-year-old woman in the US called off her wedding after discovering that her fiancé, 30, had secretly purchased a house with his mother—without informing her. The revelation, which she described as a “major red flag,” led her to rethink their relationship.

Taking to Reddit, the woman explained that she and her fiancé had been planning a fall 2025 wedding and had long discussed their future, including buying a home together. However, she was blindsided when she found out that he had already purchased a house—not with her, but with his mother.

Fiancé’s Secret Home Purchase Sparks Betrayal

According to the woman, her fiancé’s mother had found “the perfect place” and convinced him to split the purchase with her because she “didn’t want to rent anymore.” The fiancé never mentioned that he was even looking for a home.

When confronted, he casually suggested that she could “move in too,” expecting her to live in a home his mother had chosen, co-owned, and planned to stay in full-time.

Adding to her shock, he justified the decision by saying he had done it because she was “taking too long” to save for a house, and his mother offered him a “faster way” to own property.

Wedding Canceled Amid Family Backlash

Realizing she couldn’t marry someone who made such a major decision without her, the woman decided to call off the wedding. However, her fiancé’s family bombarded her with messages, accusing her of overreacting. Even her own parents felt canceling the wedding was extreme.

Seeking validation, she turned to Reddit, asking if she was being unreasonable. The post quickly gained traction, amassing over 22,000 upvotes. Many users sympathized with her, emphasizing that her fiancé’s actions indicated deeper issues about priorities, decision-making, and their future dynamic.

One commenter wrote, “It’s not just a house; it’s about how he makes decisions. He didn’t consider you at all. That’s not a partnership.” Another added, “This would be a lifelong struggle. He’s already showing you that his mother will come first in everything.”

Ultimately, the woman’s decision to call off the wedding was widely supported, with many urging her to trust her instincts and prioritize her happiness.